June Payne 1931 - 2007
June was born at Croft, in Leicestershire, in 1931, she was the
eldest of 5 children, having 3 brothers and 1 sister. Leaving school
in 1945 she started work in a hosiery factory, as did many other
girls from the area. June met Roy, who lived in a neighbouring
village, in 1952 at a local ballroom. They had a common interest in
modern jazz and big band music which they maintained throughout
their days together. Roy was welcomed into June’s happy family, and
they shared a lot of time with her parents, brothers and sister.
June and Roy were married after Roy completed his national service
in 1958, and moved into their first house at Burbage in
Leicestershire.
In 1964 for they embarked on the first of their many moves when Roy
changed his job and they bought a house at Newton Blossomville. They
had many happy days there, fishing and picnicking. Their happiness
was made complete when Lesley was born the following March, and
Robert in 1968, while the family was living for 18 months on a farm
in Wendover. After short spells in Sussex and back in June’s home
village, where Sara was born in 1971, they moved back to this area,
living in Harrold for the next 25 years.
June took part in many village activities, and became a lunch
supervisor at Harrold Middle School. She enjoyed her contact with
the pupils, and was always happy when she bumped into them after
they had left school.
In 1978 June began her long association with Bedford and County
Athletic club, all her children became members, and Robert is still
an active member after 27 years.
In 1980 June moved to Africa when Roy and Sara got jobs in that
country. The family have many happy memories of that time, with
memorable trips camping in the bush.
In 1982 the family returned to Harrold, moving twice within that
village before moving to Felmersham in 1999 to live next to Lesley,
David and the children.
June was kind and generous, always putting others before herself.
She made friends easily, and was always ready to help if needed.
This showed itself in many ways; serving on the Harrold Centre
Committee; running the sweet counter at the Athletic Club. She was a
homemaker, and seemed able to create a home immediately she moved
into a house. June loved all her family, and was intensely
supportive of them. She was the one who always remembered birthdays
and anniversaries, she was always welcoming, and there was food and
drink for anyone who visited her.
June’s happiness was complete when the four grandchildren came
along, and she enjoyed looking after them, and was proud of all
their achievements.
June never got angry, not even when Robert flooded the bathroom by
leaving a tap running all afternoon with the plug in the sink.
June was also very fond of animals, and received immense pleasure
from the cats and dogs that she owned throughout her married life.
She owned the three sheep that many will have seen at the house.
June discovered that they had a special liking for (home) baked
bread, and she loved to feed them with it. Rev David Mason
Edith (Edie) Brown 1916 - 2007 |
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Edith or more locally known as Edie Brown was born in Felmersham in
1916, the third of four children of Anne and Charles Everest. Her
brother Jack and sister Dorothy have both passed on and her youngest
sister Gladys (known as Gill) Burr, although unwell, still lives in
the village.
She was christened in St Mary’s Church, Felmersham where she also
married “her beloved Alf” in 1942. She met Alf at W H Allen in
Bedford where she had been sent to do factory work during World War
II. He was a young Widower, left with a baby boy after his first
wife had died as a consequence of childbirth. After marrying Alf,
she became mother to his son Ted and two years later their daughter
Lesley was born.
Edie encouraged the children to be creative, to enjoy and respect
nature and passed on her love of books, and to Lesley, she also
passed on a passion for fabric and needlework which Lesley still
does as her main hobby. Lesley particularly recalls how after the
war they kept ducks and chickens but Edie got so fond of them that
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One thing Edie was unable to pass on to Ted and Lesley was her
musical skill. Edie had never had a lesson in her life but had a
natural ear and considerable talent and she could sit down and play
all the songs of the thirties and forties.
Alf died in 1962 aged 51 which left her as a widow for 45 years, she
also lost her son Ted in 2002. Edie was Aunt to Shirley, the
daughter of her elder sister Dorothy who died nearly 40 years ago.
She was a proud Gran to Adrian, Michael, Andrew and Sharon and most
recently had become Great Granny to Kieran, Jodie, Bethany and
Lauren.
The funeral service and
committal were held at St Mary's Church on Thursday 10 May followed
by a private cremation. She was 90 years old.
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Mary Ditmas (neè Mary Glenn) 1912 - 2007 |
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Mary was born on 3rd January 1912 in West Byfleet in Surrey the only
child of George and Wizzie Glenn. Mary spent most of her school life
as a boarder at Wycombe Abbey School where she excelled in tennis
and lacrosse and played for Surrey in both those sports. She
continued to play tennis for most of her active life and her vicious
underarm topspin serve was a hallmark of her game.
After leaving Wycombe Abbey, Mary spent her year at finishing school
in Paris and in the period leading up to the war, travelled
extensively with her parents and friends.
Mary’s mother, Wizzie, came from Yorkshire where they used to
holiday when she was young; and during one of those holidays Mary
met Noel Shaw, who had been at Bedford School, and who used to stay
there with friends and a romance commenced. However, Noel joined the
Gurkhas in the early 1930’s and at that time young Indian Army
Officers could not get married until they were 30 and during that
time the war intervened and they were not married until 11th
November 1944 when Noel returned briefly from the Chindit Campaigns
in Burma.
At the outbreak of war Mary became a Lieutenant in the ATS and
during that time her friends included Jocelyn Nash (nee Allen)
from Turvey and Aileen Wells from Felmersham who she was able
to meet up with again when Mary and Noel settled in Felmersham
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As soon
as the war finished, Mary joined Noel in India where Mark was born,
followed by Malaya and then Hong Kong and then back to the UK for 2
years when Lance and Glenn were born. Noel was then posted as
Military Attaché to Baghdad before taking up his final posting as
Commandant of the Brigade of Gurkhas in Sungei Patani in North
Malaya. On retiring from the Army Noel became involved in the City
of London and was then appointed Private Secretary to the Lord Mayor
of London before incurring a cerebral haemorrhage in 1968.
During all these postings, Mary was always actively involved
carrying out the social duties and activities required by her
husband’s positions as well as being a kind and loving Mother and
always ensuring that she put other people’s interest first. An
excellent cook, she loved entertaining although attending church on
Sunday mornings tended to mean that the parsnips were normally
burnt!
During her life, Mary always supervised the buying and equipping of
all the houses in which they lived and made them vibrant and social
places. On leaving the Army, Mary’s good eye for property always put
the family in good stead. Their first home together was the Old
Rectory here in Felmersham where in typical fashion, Mary joined in
local activities and was a founding member of the local Three in One
Club.
Mary married again in 1981, in Felmersham Church, Col. Basil Ditmas
whom she had met when he was visiting cousins in the North
Bedfordshire area and they had a very happy five years together
until Basil died in 1986.
All in all, Mary had a very long and interesting life and was in
places at historical times. Mark Shaw
The funeral service was held at St Mary's Church, Felmersham on 18
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David James Rhodes MB, FRCP. 1939 -
2007
David was born in Croxley Green, Hertfordshire and after his
schooling he became an apprentice in the printing industry. During
his apprenticeship he developed an interest in cars and bought his
first car, an Austin Seven with two seater bodywork and a very
dramatic MG style, with which he entered local rallies.
David also discovered rugby football and played for West Herts RFC,
being rewarded in his first season with the prize for the most
improved player. This was a passion which lasted throughout his life
- he arranged a stay of one of his recent chemo treatments so that
he could better enjoy the World Cup Final - and for a period
Chairman of Milton Keynes RFC.
When David literally “felt the call to medicine” he had to break his
apprenticeship. He also had to gain the necessary qualifications for
entry to medical school, and it is a mark of his determination that,
in a single year, he gained five O Levels and two A Levels at the
local Further Education College and thus was able to go up to Guy's
Hospital.
During David's time as a student, he served three months in the
Yemen as a Red Cross worker during their particularly vicious and
bloody civil war. His work involved, amongst other duties, carrying
out surgery on battlefield casualties and taking cover in caves when
the Ilyushin bombers carried out a raid; it was a formative and
enlightening experience. It took a lot of courage to volunteer for
such service.
It was a very happy day when he and Jane married at All Saints,
Croxley Green. David was by now doing a house job at Hither Green
and after this they moved to Aylesbury where David worked for a
while at the Tindal Hospital. It was while they were there that Anna
was born.
After Tindal, David became a GP, joining a practice at Woburn Sands
where James and Katie were born. During his time in Woburn Sands, he
was talked into sharing a vintage sports racing special, and he
enjoyed three successful seasons with this car. His motor racing
career involved several vehicles. He acquired a Morgan Plus Eight.
He developed this car over several successful seasons before parting
with it. His last high performance car was a Porsche 9 11.
When David, Jane and family moved to Felmersham in 1978, it would be
no exaggeration to say that his compassion and care had won the hearts
of all the patients at Woburn Sands; it was clear, when he left to
work at Harrold Surgery, they did not want him to go.
David spent 15 years as a Harold GP and many local people have good
cause to be grateful for his expert and, on many occasions, life
saving diagnosis. He was a kind, considerate and knowledgeable
physician who always had time for his patients.
Meanwhile his family was growing up and he was proud and delighted
that Anna should go to Guy's and follow in his footsteps. He funded
James' karting and when he went on to bigger things David sponsored
him as much as he could. Katie went to the Royal Holloway to learn
Italian, again to his huge delight. He was a devoted father.
David had wide ranging interests. He was an expert fisherman and
loved music and good food. He was very interested in history and had
been engaged in writing a novel about the First World War for some
time. He not only enjoyed good wine, but he also knew why it was
good.
In his student days he wrote a paper about DNA when the term was
still barely known, and when qualified he researched and wrote on
several other medical topics. He contributed several humorous pieces
to one of his car club's magazines. He was a gifted artist, but
although several paintings exist he never seemed to have the time to
pursue this skill. He loved good furniture and objects. He was
justifiably proud of the pond yacht he rescued from an antique shop
in Penzance and refitted.
David had a great interest in cardiology, among other things, and
established a health screening clinic in his home in October '88.
This gradually became a successful project and he looked after
employees of many local, prominent businesses, but also people from
much further a field. He had people from France and America who came
to see him regularly! The clinic was eventually moved to BMI Manor
Hospital at Biddenham, where, sadly, he was only able to work for
six weeks before he was taken ill.
David Rhodes was a man of intelligence, determination, courage,
generosity, hospitality and above all he had great humour. He faced
his illness with his characteristically good humour, he will be
sorely missed. Written from the funeral address by Humphrey
Collis. |